Romance

As Valentine's Day approaches we're all starting to think about 'it'. Will this be a 'good' V-Day or a 'bad' one. Will I be with the love of my life, or alone. Romantic fantasies are being exploited by florists, card and candy companies, to name a few. Some people wrap themselves up in knots worrying about having the perfect setting, gift idea, or if their clothes and hair will be just right.

But, for me romance doesn't have to be all tied up with the idea of love with the perfect mate, or whether or not we're 'with' someone. I am a big fan of romance for romance sake. Some of my most romantic moments have been with my closest friends, my family, or just me...by myself. Romance becomes about aesthetics, or just appreciating what I have. I love the moon, a sunset, a sunrise or a cozy fire as much by myself as when I'm with my husband. When I was in high school the term 'Rotic' came into being...you know...'romantic without the man'. And I enjoy rotic moments so much!

Anyway...if you're struggling because you feel like there isn't enough romance in your life...I urge you to try and find it in yourself rather than in another person. Maybe it might make this Valentine's Day a little better.